What do you call "the gay scene"?

Is it only filled with men? Orgies? Alcohol? Clubs? Sauna?

And when you hear somebody said that you retire from this, do you retire from all the above? Or part of it?

And when you retire from it, does it mean your life becomes less exciting or less enriching?

For me, in my dictionary, there is no term called "the gay scene".

Because there is so much in life to experience by being the person that I am, that it's not only limited "the gay scene". 'Nuff said!

This post today is inspired by a friend. Food for thought, eh?